This is it!

I've been trying to decide on a blog name forever,  I hated my original one and as I was looking at movies tonight, it clicked!  The Born Ultimatum.  It fits everything I want to tell people about my experiences, being a mom, a midwife and changing the whole perspective of pregnancy labor and birth.  Now I just need to transfer over the things I feel are important and leave out the ones that aren't.  :)